In this page One of the most common questions people ask when considering divorce in New York is whether assets are divided equally. The short answer is no. New York is not a 50/50 divorce state. Instead, New York follows the principle of equitable distribution, which focuses on fairness rather than mathematical equality. This distinction…
In this page Prenuptial agreements are often misunderstood as tools of mistrust or pessimism. In reality, a thoughtfully prepared prenup can serve as a foundation for transparency, financial clarity, and mutual respect before marriage begins. When couples use mediation to create a prenuptial agreement, the process becomes collaborative rather than adversarial. Prenup mediation allows both…
In this page Travel during or after a divorce often raises questions about what information must be shared with the other parent. While one parent may view a trip as a personal decision, family law prioritizes transparency when children are involved. Clear communication about travel plans is not about control—it is about ensuring safety, consistency,…
In this page Vacations can be emotionally complicated for families going through divorce. While travel is often meant to be a break from stress, it can introduce new tension when parents disagree about communication, boundaries, and access to the children. Questions about FaceTime, phone calls, and messaging during trips are among the most common sources…
In this page Parenting during the holidays while going through a divorce can feel overwhelming. Emotions are heightened, schedules are disrupted, and children often sense the tension even when parents try to shield them. Holidays that once felt joyful may now carry uncertainty, guilt, or fear of conflict. Yet, this season can still be navigated…
In this page Durrani v. Durrani (2011) is a significant New Jersey family law decision that explains how courts respond when divorced parents fail to follow their parenting agreement, make unilateral decisions, or allow communication to break down. The ruling reinforces that even after a divorce is finalized, both parents remain legally required to collaborate,…
In this page Your first holiday season after separation often brings a mix of grief, loneliness, relief, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion. Even if you know separation is the right step, the holidays can magnify the emotional weight of what has changed. Traditions that once felt comforting may now feel painful, and gatherings that used to…
In this page The holiday season can be one of the most dangerous times of year for individuals experiencing domestic violence. Increased stress, financial pressure, crowded living conditions, and reduced privacy often escalate abusive behavior. For those already navigating fear or control within a relationship, the holidays can amplify risk rather than provide relief. A…
In this page The holiday season brings heightened emotions, increased expectations, and intense scheduling pressures—especially for families navigating separation or divorce. What might feel manageable during other times of the year can quickly escalate into conflict in December. Disagreements over parenting time, travel, finances, and family traditions often surface when emotions are already running high.…
In this page The holiday season can be one of the most emotionally sensitive times for separated or divorcing parents. Traditions, travel, extended family expectations, and children’s routines all converge into a short window of time that carries deep emotional meaning. Without a clear holiday parenting plan, even cooperative co-parents may find themselves in conflict.…